fix(ext/node): fix dns.lookup result ordering (#26264)

partially unblocks #25470

This PR aligns the resolution of `localhost` hostname to Node.js
behavior.

In Node.js `dns.lookup("localhost", (_, addr) => console.log(addr))`
prints ipv6 address `::1`, but it prints ipv4 address `127.0.0.1` in
Deno. That difference causes some errors in the work of enabling
`createConnection` option in `http.request` (#25470). This PR fixes the
issue by aligning `dns.lookup` behavior to Node.js.

This PR also changes the following behaviors (resolving TODOs):
- `http.createServer` now listens on ipv6 address `[::]` by default on
linux/mac
- `net.createServer` now listens on ipv6 address `[::]` by default on
linux/mac

These changes are also alignments to Node.js behaviors.

2 files changed, 15 insertions, 5 deletions

diff --git a/tests/unit_node/http_test.ts b/tests/unit_node/http_test.ts
index f85b1466b..f1ff77bb3 100644
--- a/tests/unit_node/http_test.ts
+++ b/tests/unit_node/http_test.ts
@@ -318,10 +318,14 @@ Deno.test("[node/http] IncomingRequest socket has remoteAddress + remotePort", a
     // deno-lint-ignore no-explicit-any
     const port = (server.address() as any).port;
     const res = await fetch(
-      `http://127.0.0.1:${port}/`,
+      `http://localhost:${port}/`,
     );
     await res.arrayBuffer();
-    assertEquals(remoteAddress, "127.0.0.1");
+    if (Deno.build.os === "windows") {
+      assertEquals(remoteAddress, "127.0.0.1");
+    } else {
+      assertEquals(remoteAddress, "::1");
+    }
     assertEquals(typeof remotePort, "number");
     server.close(() => resolve());
   });
diff --git a/tests/unit_node/tls_test.ts b/tests/unit_node/tls_test.ts
index 93eacd5ec..847ec2dde 100644
--- a/tests/unit_node/tls_test.ts
+++ b/tests/unit_node/tls_test.ts
@@ -32,13 +32,15 @@ for (
 ) {
   Deno.test(`tls.connect sends correct ALPN: '${alpnServer}' + '${alpnClient}' = '${expected}'`, async () => {
     const listener = Deno.listenTls({
+      hostname: "localhost",
       port: 0,
       key,
       cert,
       alpnProtocols: alpnServer,
     });
     const outgoing = tls.connect({
-      host: "localhost",
+      host: "::1",
+      servername: "localhost",
       port: listener.addr.port,
       ALPNProtocols: alpnClient,
       secureContext: {
@@ -61,6 +63,7 @@ Deno.test("tls.connect makes tls connection", async () => {
   const ctl = new AbortController();
   let port;
   const serve = Deno.serve({
+    hostname: "localhost",
     port: 0,
     key,
     cert,
@@ -71,7 +74,8 @@ Deno.test("tls.connect makes tls connection", async () => {
   await delay(200);
 
   const conn = tls.connect({
-    host: "localhost",
+    host: "::1",
+    servername: "localhost",
     port,
     secureContext: {
       ca: rootCaCert,
@@ -102,6 +106,7 @@ Deno.test("tls.connect mid-read tcp->tls upgrade", async () => {
   const { promise, resolve } = Promise.withResolvers<void>();
   const ctl = new AbortController();
   const serve = Deno.serve({
+    hostname: "localhost",
     port: 8443,
     key,
     cert,
@@ -111,7 +116,8 @@ Deno.test("tls.connect mid-read tcp->tls upgrade", async () => {
   await delay(200);
 
   const conn = tls.connect({
-    host: "localhost",
+    host: "::1",
+    servername: "localhost",
     port: 8443,
     secureContext: {
       ca: rootCaCert,