fix(ext/node): support stdin child_process IPC & fd stdout/stderr (#24106)

Add supports for "ipc" and fd options in child_process spawn API.

Internal changes: Adds a hidden rid and "ipc_for_internal_use" option to
Deno.Command. Used by `node:child_process`

Example:
```js
const out = fs.openSync("./logfile.txt", 'a')
const proc = spawn(process.execPath, ["./main.mjs", "child"], {
  stdio: ["ipc", out, "inherit"]
});
```

Ref #16753

1 files changed, 1 insertions, 0 deletions

diff --git a/tests/specs/node/stdio_ipc/main.out b/tests/specs/node/stdio_ipc/main.out
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+msg: hahah