fix(ext/node): support stdin child_process IPC & fd stdout/stderr (#24106)

Add supports for "ipc" and fd options in child_process spawn API.

Internal changes: Adds a hidden rid and "ipc_for_internal_use" option to
Deno.Command. Used by `node:child_process`

Example:
```js
const out = fs.openSync("./logfile.txt", 'a')
const proc = spawn(process.execPath, ["./main.mjs", "child"], {
  stdio: ["ipc", out, "inherit"]
});
```

Ref #16753

1 files changed, 16 insertions, 0 deletions

diff --git a/tests/specs/node/stdio_ipc/main.mjs b/tests/specs/node/stdio_ipc/main.mjs
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..4a1a8ddbd
--- /dev/null
+++ b/tests/specs/node/stdio_ipc/main.mjs
@@ -0,0 +1,16 @@
+import { spawn } from "node:child_process";
+import process from "node:process";
+
+if (process.argv[2] === "child") {
+  process.send("hahah");
+} else {
+  const proc = spawn(process.execPath, ["./main.mjs", "child"], {
+    stdio: ["ipc", "inherit", "inherit"],
+  });
+
+  proc.on("message", function (msg) {
+    console.log(`msg: ${msg}`);
+    proc.kill();
+    Deno.exit(0);
+  });
+}