perf(ext/node): optimize fs.exists[Sync] (#24613)

Use `access` on *nix and `GetFileAttributesW` on Windows.

[Benchmark](https://paste.divy.work/p/-gq8Ark.js):
```
$ deno run -A bench.mjs # main (568dd)
existsSync: 8980.636629ms

$ target/release/deno run -A bench.mjs # this PR
existsSync: 6448.7604519999995ms

$ bun bench.mjs
existsSync: 6562.88671ms

$ node bench.mjs
existsSync: 7740.064653ms
```

Ref https://github.com/denoland/deno/pull/24434#discussion_r1679777912

1 files changed, 22 insertions, 1 deletions

diff --git a/ext/node/ops/fs.rs b/ext/node/ops/fs.rs
index 47b66ee1d..687903325 100644
--- a/ext/node/ops/fs.rs
+++ b/ext/node/ops/fs.rs
@@ -26,7 +26,28 @@ where
     .borrow_mut::<P>()
     .check_read_with_api_name(&path, Some("node:fs.existsSync()"))?;
   let fs = state.borrow::<FileSystemRc>();
-  Ok(fs.lstat_sync(&path).is_ok())
+  Ok(fs.exists_sync(&path))
+}
+
+#[op2(async)]
+pub async fn op_node_fs_exists<P>(
+  state: Rc<RefCell<OpState>>,
+  #[string] path: String,
+) -> Result<bool, AnyError>
+where
+  P: NodePermissions + 'static,
+{
+  let path = PathBuf::from(path);
+
+  let fs = {
+    let mut state = state.borrow_mut();
+    state
+      .borrow_mut::<P>()
+      .check_read_with_api_name(&path, Some("node:fs.exists()"))?;
+    state.borrow::<FileSystemRc>().clone()
+  };
+
+  Ok(fs.exists_async(path).await?)
 }
 
 #[op2(fast)]